"Direct Selling Business......oh No....!!!"

In this post, i'm going to share my experience about being OVERFRIENDLY can cause PROBLEMS.....

My friend, Syikin and I went for lunch to IOI mall. As usual being women, we were to excited to walk around the mall...looking at dresses, watches...and sooooooooooo many things..( a typical women style). I need to get some workbook for my tuition classes...so i just ask her to hang around for a while... and i'll go to POPULAR bookstore. ( Peeps... POPULAR Book store at IOI mall is really big and you can spend hours there...).

            While, i was busy choosing the books, an Indian girl walk towards me with a bright smile. " Excuse me, are u from Puchong, akka?" she asked me with a very genuine smile. I naively reply her that i'm from UPM. She questioned me further about my life. She was very happy to know that i'm doing postgraduate studies in UPM and we share so many interesting stories... about studies, books, Indian community, my grandmaa, her grandpaa... etc..etc..etc. I were busy talking to her until i totally forgetten about my friend Syikin. Poor soul, had to come looking for me till the bookstore. ( Sorry...Syikin).We exchange contact number's and i gave her a sincere hug. I felt happy to know someone who share's the same interest like me....

            2 days later i received a call from her....( Let named her Ms P....). She ask to join her for lunch..i say ok and went to IOI mall to meet her. (Note this point ah, it was lunch break.....so i need to come back to class again.). Since, i need to get something in mall, so i didn't think much and just follow the flow...... Ms P was happy to see me and i'm happy too.. We went around to get my things and as usual...we talk about so much of things...my dreams...my fav vacations.....and the list go on. Just about the the time to leave......... she open her laptop..." Akka, i got something to share with u, it is ok..if you don't want to join, just listen with open minded akka..". Opps...... hmmmm..ok. Then she explain to me about her business plan for more than 1 hour...i had to interrupt her in middle," Can, i know what is the name of your business?''.... Her answer was simple," Listen first akka, i'll let you know after i explain to you about the details.." her voice was very firm and direct too. I was suprised with her answer, then just quietly listen to her. At the end of the conversation, she told that she was doing a business called "A". I sighed and say that my parents are also the member for that direct selling business. We just buy products for home purposes and we are very happy with it. Then she lecture again about making big money doing that business..and all the benefits if sign up as her down line. I try my best to let her know that i'm not interested at all. I become voiceless at that point, i was not given oppurtunity to reject the business. I don't want to be harsh or rude, so i say that, " I rather to join the business through my parents  if I"M INTERESTED...". It was already 5 pm. I felt bad for escaping from lab for too long.

          I thought the issue over, since i have reject the business plan in a soft manner......but it seems to continue again. She come to look for me to my hostel... can u imagine??? A total stranger, knocking at your door when your not around. My neighbor inform me about this the next day..i was shocked. When i reach my apartment, the security guard man, stopped my car and inform me about this issue. He passed me a small paper note. It was from Ms.P. I called her ask about it. She told me that she just drop by to pass a book and say hello. I was kind off annoyed.

           Yesterday, it was about 11pm, i reached my hostel after a long tuition class..... i was shocked to see 2 people waiting for me at my car parking lot. I was so angry....... it was Ms.P and her mother. I felt angry. Both of them talks about their business. I gave a very cold response. I was too tired..... I feel like shouting LEAVE ME ALONE!!! I told them again that i'm tired. They ask for appointment on some other day....... I seriously don't have time. My timetable is packed. They wants to meet me in my parent's house....which is 1 hour driving distance from here..just to talk about their business. I was very annoyed. I don't wish to hurt people, but at the end...i feel my inner peace is gone.... I need to learn to say NO.... and turn offf people, even it might hurt them.

         Oh...people....Pls understand that everyone has their own space in life.....Doing direct selling business is good, i'm not denying it. But please don't over do it. Your friends are still your friends, don't look at your friend in a business prospect manner. It is absolutely fine when you want to share your business with others...but please let them decide. Don't be so pushy..... there is no forcing business in direct selling market.

I'm enjoying.....

My current life is just like riding a roller coaster. Up and down ....up and down......up and down.....I already starts to get used to it. I decided not to over react, but just sit back and relax. I just wanted to follow the flow.
My try my level best to live a perfect life. I spend more time with my family. I organize freaking get-to-gather party. And i spent money excessively for shopping...he he he

He don't speak...; He don't even ask for it;

Whatever he give...He give it with the heart ....;

He don't speak....; He don't even care;

Whatever he give... He give with smile......;

He is  light, He is my shadow;

He is mine, He is a stranger;

I don't know anything else.....i only know this.......

that i see GOD in Him, what should i do....

my head is bowing down at Him....what should i do...

that i see GOD in Him, what should i do....

 

I'm beautiful.....

Please don't jump into conclusion by looking at the title.......The statement "i'm beautiful" means..... ALL HUMAN BEING ARE BEAUTIFUL.....

Sometimes, we always compare ourself with TV celebrities and down grade our own beauty....If your a girl, i'm sure..u'll be nodding your head , up and down.

 We always wanted to be tall like a Anouskha....slim and trim like Shreya..... pretty like Aishwarya Rai....have sweet smile like Shilpa Sheety...... and be elegant like Kajol.( The standard differ from each individual, morely based on which language entertainment you always watch). We prefer to be in perfect images...in simple justification..." A modern living CLEOPATRA" he he he he he... I have seen some of my friends really struggle to be beautiful all the time. 

Back to the story, i honestly feel that everyone are beautiful. No matter what, everyone has the element of beauty in them. Some girls complain that they have dark complexion, but they will look very sweet indeed. Some girls who are fat.....used to have adorable innocent look. Beauty on the face does not last long, but the inner beauty is the one that last forever with us. A beautiful heart is more valuable...than a make up face..

God has created all of us in such a beautiful way..... He loves us so much that even each of our cell are beautiful.......( I was browsing some image of white blood cell this morning, then i come across this beautiful pictures taken using SEM. I was amazed by its beauty......imagine our single cell in body can be so beautiful...i'm sure we, human body which resembles millions milllions of cell...are beautiful too......

The cell in the middle is a white blood cell.

They look like little cinnamon candies here, but they're actually the most common type of blood cell in the human body - red blood cells (RBCs)

Regular trimmings to your hair and good conditioner should help to prevent this unsightly picture of a split end of a human hair.

Here's what it looks like to see a close-up of human hair cell stereocilia inside the ear. These detect mechanical movement in response to sound vibrations.

This image is of a purple, colour-enhanced human egg sitting on a pin. The egg is coated with the zona pellicuda, a glycoprotein that protects the egg but also helps to trap and bind sperm. Two coronal cells are attached to the zona pellicuda.

And the cycle of life begins again: this 6 day old human embryo is beginning to implant into the endometrium, the lining of the uterus.

I heard everyone say tht...GOD is the best listener, you don't need to shout, nor cry out loud. Because he hear even very silent prayer of a sincere heart. I wish he can hear my loud prayers too.

 I just want to finish my PHD successfully. Why is the road to success is so rough for me?? Maybe i'm writing this blog with a frustration mode but.....what else can i do......?? My only way to release stress is to write blog...pour out my feeling.... A feeling of little girl, who wants to achieve big in life, a simple girl who loves simple stuff, knows the value of money, who check for price tag first before even looking at the dress, and most importantly a person who hard to say NO.....( i always end up troubling myself in order to help others.....which is not good....i should learn to say No...).

I'm in lab now...playing with mice....i'm sure i'm not going to go back any time soon....
How do i feel now? Hmmm....it is like a feeling of walking alone on the dark road where your not sure where is it going to end....To be precise, it is feeling like in a graveyard in the middle of night. So....dramatic i guess.....but this is how am i feeling.....

I'm trying my best to be positive but......agrhhhhh.........ok ok ok..i think i will stop writing now...i am seriously not in a good mood now...
Thanks for reading....

Right after 10 minutes, after i post this blog.....i sign in again to add this part...
" I was very down when i wrote the blog, later on when i browse my facebook, i saw an interesting article...it is about PhD.
http://graduateschool.topuniversities.com/articles/phd/doing-phd-it%E2%80%99s-worth-it?dm_i=8GY%2CL3GA%2C1ABHX3%2C1PO76%2C1

  Quote from the article, "Let’s accept it, doing a PhD can be an intellectually challenging, physically tiring and emotionally draining" . I am happy and relieved to see the statement..... i think it is normal to feel like how i feel...since most the PhD student felt it....
Special thanks to GOD, to show continuous love and guidance upon me...LOVE YOU...he he he he

I LOVE U....................................

When U Were 15 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Blushed.. U Look Down And Smile..

When U Were 20 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Put Ur Head On My Shoulder And Hold My Hand...
Afraid That I Might Disappear...

When U Were 25 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Prepare Breakfast And Serve It In Front Of Me,
And Kiss My Forhead
N Said :"U Better Be Quick, Is's Gonna Be Late.."

When U Were 30 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Said: "If U Really Love Me, Please Come Back Early After Work.."

When U Were 40 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Were Cleaning The Dining Table And Said: "Ok Dear,
But It's Time For
U To Help Our Child With His/Her Revision.."

When U Were 50 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..
U Were Knitting And U Laugh At Me...

When U Were 60 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Smile At Me..

When U Were 70 Yrs Old. I Said I Love U...
We Sitting On The Rocking Chair With Our Glasses On..
I'M Reading Your Love Letter That U Sent To Me 50 Yrs Ago..
With Our Hand Crossing Together..

When U Were 80 Yrs Old, U Said U Love Me!
I Didn't Say Anything But Cried...

That Day Must Be The Happiest Day Of My Life!
Because U Said U Love Me !!!
**Please Appreciate Your Loved Ones.. Say "I Love You"
To Them When U Have The Chance Now !!!**

PS: Dear hubby, I'm not sure when I'll meet u..but i would like to inform u in advance that i wish our love story to end up like this....Yes, i don't know the beginning of our precious love story yet..but still let us both hope for happy ending.I hope to hear those words from you when I'm on my last stage of life...Ur companion can overcome my fear of death...

With lots of love and care,

Your beloved Revathee... 

 

Why women cry............................

A little boy asked his mother, 'Why are you crying?' 'Because I'm a woman,' she told him.

'I don't understand,' he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, 'And you never will.'

Later the little boy asked his father, 'Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?'

'All women cry for no reason,' was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry..

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, 'God, why do women cry so easily?'

God said

'When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.'

  "The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides.''