A story of My friend.....

She is a very beatiful girl. Fair skin, small size, cute mole on her lips and easily to say, a very princess type of a girl. She was brought up by a very loving family. A loving mother, a caring father and a younger brother who willing to buy her anything in this world. Her home is her heaven, her family is her world. She had grown up in lovely situation, where she is been pampered and protected.



When she reached 20 years old, she fall in love with a guy. The guy is a proffesional and he is 8 years elder than her. Can u imagine.... 8 years elder. After a taugh time, she manage to get married to him. They were couples for 4 years before their wedding. Their dating life is very different from any other ordinary couples. They never go out, they never hold hands, they never kiss, they even never celebrate any special days such as Birthdays, Valentine or Deepavalli.



In this 4 years, she had only able to chat through phone. Maybe face to face communication in her house infront of her mother( i know this sound weird but this is what happen in her life). The guy will visit her in her house maybe 3 months once. Actually there were a lot of oppurtunity he can use to meet to her often but....... donno why, things doesn't occur has what it should be. He even did not attend her 21 st birthday party.



But my friend was too in love that she did not realise the default at all. Maybe this is what people say " Love is blind". After all she sacrifice everything for him, actually he is not worth at all. He is not handsome, he look old, fat and the worst he is stingy. He had never give any gift for her, not even on her birthday.



The wedding preparation was done in rush. In 3 month, the whole wedding preparation take place, both the engagement and wedding ( can u believe this... normally people will take at least 1 year to plan for their wedding). They fight for almost every little thing... from engagement ring to invitation cards. They fight and fight and fight. The situation was so tensed until... my friend plan to broke up after 1 week of engagement, both the family had to sit together and involved in their problem.



The story doesn't stop there.... the guy managed to convince her and they finally get marry. My friend was in a situation where she had to quit her postgraduate studies. She make the sacrification. She is a good student, she handle a project on Astma disease and her poor proffesor had spend around RM 250000 to buy a special equipment for the project. My proffesor was very down with her decision. My friend also got offer from Singapore to attend workshop. A bright future waits for her in carear but my friend ignore all of them. She choose to live with him and be a housewife.

After all this issue, do u think she is happy now???????? Life is not easy, sometimes it is not worth of thinking too much. Just do what we feel like doing, don''t stop urself for others.

Life Sucks>>>>

Sometimes...... i can feel that my life is very out of control. At a second, i feel like a hero...the next moment i feel like a zero..... ..
I always plan things... but end up disaster.. I just wish i can control my life fully. So long i life is on a dark side, i fed up ready. I want to have a good sleep,, a long laugh,,, a good meal..... aahhhhhh!!!!!!!

The Brick.......

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown. The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, 'What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?' The young boy was apologetic. 'Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do,' He pleaded. 'I threw the brick because no one else would stop...' With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. 'It's my brother, 'he said 'He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up.' Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, 'Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me.' Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat.. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay. 'Thank you and may God bless you,' the grateful child told the stranger. Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy! push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home.. It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: 'Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!' God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not.

cycling.........

PUTRAJAYA

After a long......................................., tired.............................. and busy...................... week, i seriously need a holiday. Nothing came across by mind rather thn cycling. Wat cycling!!!! yessssss......cycling. At Putrajaya, in the morning ( not too early: at 9 am). I tried by best to gather as many people....thanks to my beloved Prem, Sanggu, Velandren, Vijay, Uthaya, and Vinod. Especially to Vinod who willing to ponteng his school for the event.

THe journey begin....... as usual we reached there late.

...***** GET START....GO!!!!!****.....

The only pictures we took without our face....

We cycle for about 2 hours, most of us was so tired. Pity on Sanggu. Actually we were lost there, due to some wrong direction by Mr. Velendran and Mr. Uthaya. Thanks for them, for making our life in hell. But it is okk, we had good time though... Heee...hee..heee

Friend's wedding.... sad or happy?? unknown.....

"Marriage is made in heaven". This is what i usually hear from people around me (especially those who in the mood of getting married). But i think all the mood and excitement, will only stand cherish for few years.
What can we do when we see a big loop hole in some one's wedding......
Can a wedding be a funeral for some people....my little heart wander.