She is a very beatiful girl. Fair skin, small size, cute mole on her lips and easily to say, a very princess type of a girl. She was brought up by a very loving family. A loving mother, a caring father and a younger brother who willing to buy her anything in this world. Her home is her heaven, her family is her world. She had grown up in lovely situation, where she is been pampered and protected.
When she reached 20 years old, she fall in love with a guy. The guy is a proffesional and he is 8 years elder than her. Can u imagine.... 8 years elder. After a taugh time, she manage to get married to him. They were couples for 4 years before their wedding. Their dating life is very different from any other ordinary couples. They never go out, they never hold hands, they never kiss, they even never celebrate any special days such as Birthdays, Valentine or Deepavalli.
In this 4 years, she had only able to chat through phone. Maybe face to face communication in her house infront of her mother( i know this sound weird but this is what happen in her life). The guy will visit her in her house maybe 3 months once. Actually there were a lot of oppurtunity he can use to meet to her often but....... donno why, things doesn't occur has what it should be. He even did not attend her 21 st birthday party.
But my friend was too in love that she did not realise the default at all. Maybe this is what people say " Love is blind". After all she sacrifice everything for him, actually he is not worth at all. He is not handsome, he look old, fat and the worst he is stingy. He had never give any gift for her, not even on her birthday.
The wedding preparation was done in rush. In 3 month, the whole wedding preparation take place, both the engagement and wedding ( can u believe this... normally people will take at least 1 year to plan for their wedding). They fight for almost every little thing... from engagement ring to invitation cards. They fight and fight and fight. The situation was so tensed until... my friend plan to broke up after 1 week of engagement, both the family had to sit together and involved in their problem.
The story doesn't stop there.... the guy managed to convince her and they finally get marry. My friend was in a situation where she had to quit her postgraduate studies. She make the sacrification. She is a good student, she handle a project on Astma disease and her poor proffesor had spend around RM 250000 to buy a special equipment for the project. My proffesor was very down with her decision. My friend also got offer from Singapore to attend workshop. A bright future waits for her in carear but my friend ignore all of them. She choose to live with him and be a housewife.
After all this issue, do u think she is happy now???????? Life is not easy, sometimes it is not worth of thinking too much. Just do what we feel like doing, don''t stop urself for others.
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