I was driving my Ms.Vivi...while thinking about a topic to blog about. Suddenly a Islamic talk catch my attention.... it was on air by Minnal FM. The topic was about " Role of women after marriage to their parents and siblings."
Women are "princess of the house". They conquer the house before their wedding. Usually all decision will be taken under consideration of girls in the house. Just tell a simple things..... i'm sure girls view are considered. When appa ( father) wants to buy new sofa, usually the girls are the one who choose what they wants..... when amma ( mother) buys a saree, still the girl are asked for opinion of colours.....anna (brother) going for his first date, usually sisters are the one who pick a shirt on his wardrobe and of coz the ironing job goes to her as well. Ha ha ha....haizzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Even planing for secret birthday parties, Mother's Day celebration, Father's Day celebration...all this job goes to the female creatures ( this statement is purely from my experiences, my brothers always forget dates, so can't aspect gift from them...so usually they just chip in their name on my mother's day gift...the best part is,my amma knows very well tht it is my gift with my brothers name on it). Things are more prominent when the girl is elders in the house. All the decision, from buying soap to buying car.... her choices rules the scenario.
Ok....the issue is..."What happen when she gets married and leave the house?" According the talk show by a Muslim priest..( Imam), girls once married got no rights to take any decision in her parents house. The moment she is married, she has lost her importance in her parents house. I totally agree to this statement.
Women nowadays are totally influence by TV serial. The Imam mention that, in all the TV serial,the lead character are women. They shows the character to be a very very powerful women, a dynamic women, a multitasking women, a brave women, and of course a women that can solve all the problem in neighborhood. But can this happen in real life??? Nope, a wise women will never interfere in other people's life. ( Only in tv serial, the heroine can go and change people's life, and she still conquer her parents house...Chellame, Thangam, Kasturi, Idahayam...oh gosh, all the serial are the same......haizzzzzzzzzzz!!).
According to the Islamic talk, once a women is married, she is subjected to her husband. She take decision in her in laws family...not in her parents house!!!! She can only give suggestion if been asked. Giving suggestion and taking decision is 2 different things. Hope women out there realized it. In these matter, guys role are important. They have more rights to parents rather than girls.
I feel that, it is unfair to our sister in laws..if we still conquer our parents house. Give space for that women too..she needs attention and have her own way of building family. We should know our limits in parents house once married. Hope that all women, who read my blog will agree with me... and considered this matter.
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