Acid Splash....

"Pls don't bully women....!!!".:( 

I was very badly affected by the issue of acid splash which recently become the sensational news in Malaysia. Everyone are so familiar with the case, everyone are aware of the case.....but still we was not able to protect our innocent women.. (why police still haven't catch the criminals ?). A total of fifteen people, including eight pupils, two teachers, a parent and her two children, have fallen victim to the attacks so far.

Why this people.....choose women as their victim? What is their real motive? Hmm...... i think they should at least wait and see how much pain they cause to the innocent victim. At least let them decide whether they can accept it if their own mothers, sisters and daughters go through the same situation. I just cann't imagine the pain that strike the victims. I read the news where, one of the victim mentioned that she could feel a severe burning sensation and smelled smoke. Another article on newspaper which realy make me sad and encourage me to write this blog is about a teacher who been traumised after the acid splash incident. The incident happened just in front of her school.

""The incident keeps playing in my head like a broken record. I can't sleep well and when I do get some sleep, I end up waking in the middle of the night crying," said Ng, adding she also feels nervous whenever she hears the sound of a motorcycle."I dare not go out of my house or to the nearby store as I fear being attacked again."In the 7am incident on Friday morning, the acid splasher approached Ng from behind as she was passing SRJK Tamil Vivekananda near Jalan Sultan Abdul Samad to get to her school located in the same compound."I heard a motorcycle coming behind me and after it passed me, I realised a liquid had been splashed on my bag and my baju kurung. The liquid sipped in and I felt a burning sensation on my skin. It hurt so much I cried for help," said Ng. She was rushed to the school canteen by a couple who had just sent their children to school. At the canteen, Ng's wounds were cleaned before an ambulance arrived to take her to University Malaya Medical Centre.Due to the burns, Ng cannot wear normal clothes yet as it hurts whenever the fabric touches the wounds.She also needs to clean the wounds at least five times a day to avoid infection.

"I only use a towel to cover the upper part of my body as I am unable to wear any clothes, let alone a bra. It's so painful. My wounds still bleed and has puss."(source from The Malay Mail newspaper). Her last statement really tore my little heart apart.....

To all women out there....pls take care of yourself. Love yourself..Cherish every moment of your life...Your contribution is always needed to this society. You are a Daughter, Sister, Friend, Wife and most beautifully a Mother too.

LOVE GIVES ME HOPE......

Yesterday, a friend of mine called me. After a casual conversation, i notice tht she sounds very happy and excited. From her voice, i can notice tht she is so hyper and energetic. I asked her, what happen? What is she so excited about?

She told me tht she received a call from someone special. Then she continues again..... She received this call after 12 years. She is been looking for this guy to ask for sorry since she was 13. When she is 13, the guy proposed to her and she rejected him. But the worst part is, she just run away for her high school to avoid this guy. That's sound ridiculous....and my friend felt so bad after tht incident. Since then, she always been searching him to convey her sorry.

It seems tht my friend used to receive sms frm this particular number often. When she call no one will picks up the call for this number.  All of sudden, the guy called her yesterday and introduce himself. The guy had been looking for her since she left the school. Actually, he wants to say sorry for what had happen....... The guy told her tht he is been stalking her for past 12 years. He used to wait outside of her school to see her, he even had seen her recently in a wedding dinner, he also seen her in temples...so many times. But he was afraid to approach her.

My friend became speechless hearing to him. She felt so happy and special. It is like both of them were in a same place but didn't able to talk or see. If the guy had approach her the first time he met her, probably she doesn't need to waste her time of years to keep search for him...

Hmmm....happy for my friend!!!

HUGs...XOXO:D

"Hugging Is.......

Hugging is healthy. It helps the immune system, cures depression, reduces stress and induces sleep. It's invigorating, rejuvenating and has no unpleasant side effects. Hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug.
Hugging is all natural. It is organic, naturally sweet, no artificial ingredients, nonpolluting, environmentally friendly and 100 percent wholesome.
Hugging is the ideal gift. Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its awn wrapping and, of course, fully returnable.
Hugging is practically perfect. No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof, nonfattening, no monthly payments, theft-proof and nontaxable.
Hugging is an underutilized resource with magical powers. When we open our hearts and arms, we encourage others to do the same.
Think of the people in your life. Are there any words you'd like to say? Are there any hugs you want to share? Are you waiting and hoping someone else will ask first? Please don't wait! Initiate!"

 

This is a beautiful thing i read a moment ago. Actually i was in a very very sulky mood, which mean i can just punch anybody who irritate me rite now, But.. when i read this wonderful text, all my anger just vanished. Hmmm... now looking for people to hug me.Hee hee hee:)

There are many people in my life, who i would like to sincerely give them a hug..

• my beloved parent ( i used to hug them always but it is always not enough)
• my siblings ( my little brother Vinod,especially, just hate me for hugging him a lot, he get annoyed when i run to offer him hug)
• my friends ( a long list of people, hmm....Ming, TaT, Sham, Nalina, Letchu, and many more)
• my relatives ( uncle, aunty, cousins... they really show love towards me, especially Nathan mama who always treat me as his elder daughter, Raja uncle for his unconditional love...)
• my Supervisor ( Wait till i graduate, on my convo maybe...i owe him A LOT)
• cann't think of anyone now.. so may be will updated it later..

"NO VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND CHILDREN...PLS"!!

She was a daughter, then sister, then a girl, then as a lady, later a wife followed by mother. She undergoes so much of transformation. Women in your life are SPECIAL. Women are like rose, if u treat them and handle them with care, it will be fine, but once u harsh with it, it will hurt u.

Although majority of women around us have move forward into the era of socialization, but still there are many women crying out there for help. Women still lost their rights to speak out. It is sad but this is the truth. Women nowadays are said to be growing fast than men ( the number of girls in university are enough to prove this statement) but this happen only in some countries or only among educated family. There are many women in 3rd world countries are still being abused and tortured by their own family. So many girls and children are being sexually abused. Women become victim of trafficking.

I watch this clips. I felt really touched to watch it. I realized that there are many good heart person to give hope for women.  "One such person is Sunitha Krishnan an inspirational lady who has put forth an example of exemplary human courage by turning tragedy into activism, by turning anger into a revolutionary force, by turning suffering to compassion. Sunitha was raped by 8 men when she was just 15 years old. Her fight and victimization didn't stop thee it was the social stigma that haunted her and transformed the girl into an iron lady she is today"( quoted by Parv Kaushik in Sunitha Krishnan: A Source Of Inspiration).

"Dear men , please care about the your women. Treat them well. Protect them.Women are human being too. They have feelings. Please respect them."

LOVE AND LAW OF ATTRACTION:)

Recently, i love to read.... Every morning before i could start my work in lab, i just try to enjoy a cup of coffee while reading. I enjoyed the moment. I totally agree to my Prof, " U all ah.. should read more!!"this is exactly his favorite quote. Basically, i am reading about anything which i can learned about. Few days ago, i come across an article, i enjoy reading it. So i decided to share it with everyone here. The article is about LOVE AND LAW OF ATTRACTION.

According to the article, Only a loving person — one who is already loving — can find the right partner. It means; if you are unhappy you will find somebody who is unhappy. Unhappy people are attracted towards unhappy people. And it is good, it is natural. It is good that the unhappy people are not attracted towards happy people; otherwise they would destroy their happiness. It is perfectly okay.

Only happy people are attracted towards happy people. The same attracts the same. Intelligent people are attracted towards intelligent people; stupid people are attracted towards stupid people. You meet people of the same plane. So the first thing to remember is: a relationship is bound to be bitter if it has grown out of unhappiness. First be happy, be joyful, be celebrating, and then you will find some other soul celebrating and there will be a meeting of two dancing souls and a great dance will arise out of it.

Don’t ask for a relationship out of loneliness, no. Then you are moving in a wrong direction. Then the other will be used as a means and the other will use you as a means. And nobody wants to be used as a means! Every single individual is an end unto himself. It is immoral to use anybody as a means. If you can be happy when you are alone, you have learned the secret of being happy. Now you can be happy together. If you are happy, then you have something to share, to give. And when you give you get; it is not the other way. Then a need arises to love somebody.

Ordinarily the need is to be loved by somebody. It is a wrong need. It is a childish need; you are not mature. It is a child’s attitude. A mature person is one who comes to know the other need: that now I have to love somebody. The need to be loved is childish, immature. The need to love is mature. And when you are ready to love somebody, a beautiful relationship will arise; otherwise not.
“Is it possible for two people in a relationship to be bad for each other?” Yes, that’s what is happening all over the world. To be good is very difficult. You are not good even to yourself. How can you be good to somebody else?

You don’t even love yourself! How can you love somebody else? Love yourself, be good to yourself. The first and foremost thing is to be loving towards yourself. Don’t be hard; be soft. Care about yourself. Learn how to forgive yourself — again and again and again — seven times, seventy-seven times, seven hundred seventy-seven times. Learn how to forgive yourself. Don’t be hard; don’t be antagonistic towards yourself. Then you will flower. In that flowering you will attract some other flower. It is natural. Stones attract stones; flowers attract flowers. Then there is a relationship which has grace, which has beauty, which has a benediction in it. If you can find such a relationship, your relationship will grow into prayer;your love will become an ecstasy and through love you will know what the divine is.

(source:OSHO – Ecstasy: The Forgotten Language)

Ways to handle STRESS.....

Stress out is something very common in ones life. I'm sure very one had been stressed out, and if someone is proudly saying tht he /she never been stressed out.... watchout him/her, they are GREAT LIERS!!!! Alrite, the issue is how to handle it? Like it or not, we hv to go through it, so lets face it in a more matured way.


Unmatured ways of handling stress, ('' I think''):
1. Shout and yell at everyone.
2. Sit and cry in toilets ( until a long queue waits outside)
3. Quarel with siblings for silly things.
4. Speed on roads.
5. Cursing all the drivers on the road.... especially the car infront of urs ( some even worst,they will just overtake and show vulgar sign).
6. Keep complaining about others ( as those the whole world is taking revenge on him)



MY ways of handling stress:
1. Try to think positive ( ya.... i know it is not easy but it help to save the condition).
2. Eat......... especially chocolate ( although u gain weight, but still, u can reduce ur stress... u lost something, to gain something:)) ha..ha..ha..).
3. Listen to music.... a good ones, not the one which can make ur head spin.
4. Watch funny videos in YOUTUBE.
5. Sleep...( i know it is difficult to shut ur mind when ur stress, ur subconscious mind will keep thinking about the incident tht make u stress, BUT give a try.... TRY ur Best to SLEEP).
6. Analyse about the condition so it won't repeat again.
7. Wash dishes. ( Trust me, this really helps me a lot. Whenever i'm stressed in lab, i will quickly go into washing room and wash all the glass beaker and lab equipment.)
8. Write blog just like what i'm doing now (don't care whether others are reading or not, just write to release tension..ha..ha..ha..)

Basically, everyone has their own way of handling stress. Watever way is it, just do it. It is better for urs to control the stress rather thn letting it to control us. And for women, it is absolutely OK to cry... but don't cry too much laa. Get rid off the tears, and figure out how to solve the problem. Don't use tears to win a situation, PLS use brains. Solution is more important than emotion.

AGE IS JUST NUMBER......:)

I have successfully celebrated quarter of century this year. Happy coz had been in this beatiful world for 25 years already but at the same time sad coz i'm getting old. u know....women's fear of getting old; wrinkles around the eyes, dry skin, monopause, white hairs, teeth drops....ussshhhh.... cann't imagine. The worst quote describing women's age is " Men's life starts at 40, while Women's expire at the age of 40". Arghhhhhhh................

But this is not i want for sure. I want to have a graceful aging. Do u know wat is meaning of graceful aging.....? Graceful ageing means for a beautiful and soothing proceess of aging. We will accept the truth we r getting old and take the process easily and comfortable. It also means that u will be in the mood of steady and calm.
Complicating?.... ok let me put it simple so tht everyone will hv a picture of wat is graceful aging.

'Have u seen, old lady taking her morning walk in the park at 7am? She will smile and greet everyone who passes by her, her face will be looking calm and just like in deep thought.If u ask her what she wants, her answer will be simple. She will ask for happiness of her family. She will reply, " I'm old ready, i don't want anything, i'm waiting for my time to go back to GOD"..., ths is an example of graceful ageing'.

Old age people who lead life without depending on others, who can show unconditional love to everyone (including their daughter in law), who give advise wisely, who teach the whole family the meaning of cultures and tradision are the one having graceful ageing. If i were given a chance to lead another 25 years in my life(i will be 50 years old then).., i wish i will lead my golden age with gracefully.

How to attained these graceful ageing? It is simple. Gain knowledge as much as u can. Don't close the door of learning in ur life coz learning is a life long process. Spend your time, reading good books. Reading books is much much better than watching tv serial at the old age. Old age is beatifull period in our life, where we were given temporary visa by GOD to make unperfect life to be little more perfect. Once the call from GOD arrived, you have to leave the world no matter what happen.It is just like, the climax of movie, the value of the whole movie is condensed more to last chapther. Old age is also like the last chapter of our life story. Treasure it.

Smile.....

Smile......... I was very impressed to see this video. Suddenly, feel like 1000 watt bulb was turn on me. I did nothing...just smile heart fully. A smile costs nothing but gives much. It enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give. It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. None is so rich or mighty that he cannot get along without it and none is so poor that he cannot be made rich by it. Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away. Some people are too tired to give you a smile. Give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.

So....smile..........................."eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...."

Unpost letter to Appa:)

I'm still in the lab, having a short break while enjoying a cup of coffee. Too tired ( a lot of work today, still have dozens more). I'm too into the mood of writing. Father's Day is just around the corner, to be precise; 3 days more. I got no idea what to get for him as gift. I feel i'm going to tribute this blog for him although he is not going to read it anyway.
Appa is not internet friendly person... haa.haa.haaa...:).

Appa,
I really love u so much. Sometimes i am so proud tht i belongs to u. U are so different from my friend's father. The way u take care of me is very special. This make me to be a very obedient daughter. U hav been so good to me until i feel tht no one in this world can treat me like how u do. U are very special person, paa.

U are man behind my success. I still remember, it was PMR result. U was so happy tht i scored well. At tht time, amma questioned u, what would u do if your daughter wants to go oversea to pursuit her studies, do u have enough savings? I looked at u eagerly for reply. U smile at me widely and say u would sell off ur kidney for me. All of us burst into laugh. I laughed loud until tears drop. Paa, actually my tears dropped not because of ur joke but i felt touch. I sensed your divine love towards me. Although this happen 10 years ago, but it still fresh in my memory. Even my tears is falling down while i'm writing this blog. Hmmmm.... ok i hope can control the emotions ( hope my labmates doesn't sense tht the girl in labcoat is wiping her tears in her labcoat).

Appa, u are a simple person. When other fathers buy luxurious things for their daughter, u thought me how to safe money and know the value of money. U didn't provide all the expensive stuff for me..but u showered me with all your love. I feel your love is more valuable than this material things. Things may disappear in time but not your love paa. Your love and blessing will be with me forever.

I'm very proud to say that i'm a daughter of a bus driver. I really admire the way U brought up ur children. U try your best to provide us everything from your little salary. I salute you, Paa.
I love the way u always celebrate my birthday. It was when i was in Form 5, U didn't wish me at sharp 12am. I was like other pupil, get into the bus at 7.10am for school. Suddenly u turned back and pass me a plastic bag. It contained my favorite Cadbury chocolate and a tin of FOX sweet. U forced me to go around in the bus to pass the sweets to other pupils. I was so shy. I can never forget to way u promote my Birthday to rest of the school bus passenger. U request them to sing Birthday song for me in the bus. Paa, U are so cute. U always forget that i'm getting old.

Oshh....time is passing very fast when i'm writing about you, Paa. It is like nostaligia. I hope i can continue writing about U, but so sad. My resting period is over. Work load a lott.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mhVnsP7qcQ (PLs click this..:))

Love u, Paa.

Yours 25 years old baby,
REVATHEE:)

Laughter the best medicine..:)

Physics Teacher: Isaac Newton was sitting under a tree when an apple fell on his head and he discovered gravity. Isn’t that wonderful?

Student: Yes sir, if he had been sitting in class looking at books like us, he wouldn’t have discovered anything.

Two factory workers are talking.
Woman: I can make the boss give me the day off.

Man: And how would you do that?

Woman: “Just wait and see.” She then hangs upside-down from the ceiling. Boss comes in: What are you doing?

Woman: I’m a light bulb.

Boss: You’ve been working so much that you’ve gone crazy. I think you need to take the day off.
The man starts to follow her and the boss says: Where are you going? The man says: I’m going home, too. I can’t work in the dark.

A man is talking to God.
The man: God, how long is a million years?

God: To me, it’s about a minute.

The man: God, how much is a million dollars?

God: To me it’s a penny.

The man: God, may I have a penny?God: Wait a minute.

A little girl came home from school and said to her mother, “Mommy, today in school I was punished for something that I didn’t do.”The mother exclaimed, “But that’s terrible! I’m going to have a talk with your teacher about this … by the way, what was it that you didn’t do?”
The little girl replied, “My homework.”

The students were lined up in the cafeteria for lunch. At the head of the table was a large pile of apples. The nun made a note, and posted on the apple tray: “Take only ONE. God is watching.”
Moving further along the lunch line, at the other end of the table was a large pile of chocolate chip cookies. A child had written a note, “Take all you want. God is watching the apples.”

Teacher: Why are you late, Joseph?

Joseph: Because of a sign down the road.

Teacher: What does a sign have to do with your being late?

Joseph: The sign said, “School Ahead, Go Slow!”

The teacher of the earth science class was lecturing on map reading.
After explaining about latitude, longitude, degrees and minutes the teacher asked, “Suppose I asked you to meet me for lunch at 23 degrees, 4 minutes north latitude and 45 degrees, 15 minutes east longitude…?”
After a confused silence, a voice volunteered, “I guess you’d be eating alone.”

“Isn’t the principal a dummy!” said a boy to a girl.“Well, do you know who I am?” asked the girl.“No.” replied the boy.“I’m the principal’s daughter.” said the girl.“And do you know who I am?” asked the boy.“No,” she replied.“Thank goodness!” said the boy with a sign of relief.

Teacher asked George: how can you prove the earth is round?

George replied: I can’t. Besides, I never said it was.