Happy New Year:)

It is 30th Dec 2010 today. In 2 more days, i will step into a new year.  Hope it will be a very prosperous year for me.:) I am not prepared for it, but somehow... time are flying. Few things tht i wish to settle before starting a new year..

• Organize my diary... update it!!!
• Prepare a new goal setting
• Plan my finance.. ( i'm very weak in it)
• Get a new dream journal.
• Analyze my weakness and strength
• Get a list of things tht really really make me happy and sad
• Welcome note for year 2011

Life is too short for worrying for no reason. My life is my life.... Pls let me live my life... My future is in my hand, let me strike for sucess.
 

2010

Hi,

For this few days

only...

i will be here...

Don't worry about me...

Don't think of me anymore..

If,

I had  make you in trouble and suffer..

Pls forgive me..

I will never come back again...

Be happy always....

Will be leaving you forever,

2010

Santa Claus...Ho hO Ho....

Merry Christmas.... to everyone:) I am so much into the festive season now. Just loves the shopping complexes.... Beautifully decorated Christmas tree... sales everywhere.....Santa Claus dress on display..... and most importantly...GIFT. 

Santa!! how can we forgets him? Fat grandpa..with huge belly and long white beards...Always with his red uniforms... Ho..Ho...Ho..:) He makes  me to realize tht LOVE is just not about receiving, It is about giving too. The pleasure of giving is far more exciting and thrilling than receiving. The more we give and share, the more satisfaction we gets. I really admire SANTA CLAUS for his efforts. He spread LOVE to everyone. Love you, Santa:)

This year, i make a point to buy gifts for everyone in home. I spend time to shop for them. I had beautiful memories of shopping. I just walk around the mall and choose the best gift tht i can afford ( of course i consider the price and quality as well, I'm a good consumer most of the time.. hee..he..he..). I compare the prices, then the design, and most importantly make a wise decision..whether to BUY or GRIN & LEAVE  the shop ( Who says shopping is easy?). The worst situation will arise when you decide not to buy after a long conversation with the sales person especially when you make the poor girl walk around to choose the perfect size for you. But i got no choice. I'm very particular when i buy things for my family. Usually when i buy things for myself ( which hardly happens), i am very flexible and more in " WAT EVER" mood. But, when i shop for my family... i'm always precise. Hee..hee.heee. Hopes tht everyone in home will like the gift as well.

Once again, Merry Christmas... Spread love around...

Ho..Ho..Ho..

Revathee:)

 

Loneliness....

R u feeling lonely? why??? There are big difference between "being alone" and "feeling loneliness".Being alone doesn't mean tht you are feeling lonely..... even if you in the middle of crowd you can still feel lonely.

Everyone will experience loneliness at certain times. Not to worry about it. I believe it was the best time to reveal about yourself. You will understand about yourself more than any other time. 

Basically, i believe..tht this special moment is a your time with GOD. In a simple word, a dating with God!!

 You are in a very conscious moment and most importantly you in absolute silence. It is the time for your heart and soul to whisper to The Existing or The Nature. Treasure this moment. It is moment to enjoy. Let the love fill every space of our heart. Without love, nothing exists.......

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LOVE GIVES ME HOPE......

Yesterday, a friend of mine called me. After a casual conversation, i notice tht she sounds very happy and excited. From her voice, i can notice tht she is so hyper and energetic. I asked her, what happen? What is she so excited about?

She told me tht she received a call from someone special. Then she continues again..... She received this call after 12 years. She is been looking for this guy to ask for sorry since she was 13. When she is 13, the guy proposed to her and she rejected him. But the worst part is, she just run away for her high school to avoid this guy. That's sound ridiculous....and my friend felt so bad after tht incident. Since then, she always been searching him to convey her sorry.

It seems tht my friend used to receive sms frm this particular number often. When she call no one will picks up the call for this number.  All of sudden, the guy called her yesterday and introduce himself. The guy had been looking for her since she left the school. Actually, he wants to say sorry for what had happen....... The guy told her tht he is been stalking her for past 12 years. He used to wait outside of her school to see her, he even had seen her recently in a wedding dinner, he also seen her in temples...so many times. But he was afraid to approach her.

My friend became speechless hearing to him. She felt so happy and special. It is like both of them were in a same place but didn't able to talk or see. If the guy had approach her the first time he met her, probably she doesn't need to waste her time of years to keep search for him...

Hmmm....happy for my friend!!!

HUGs...XOXO:D

"Hugging Is.......

Hugging is healthy. It helps the immune system, cures depression, reduces stress and induces sleep. It's invigorating, rejuvenating and has no unpleasant side effects. Hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug.
Hugging is all natural. It is organic, naturally sweet, no artificial ingredients, nonpolluting, environmentally friendly and 100 percent wholesome.
Hugging is the ideal gift. Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its awn wrapping and, of course, fully returnable.
Hugging is practically perfect. No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof, nonfattening, no monthly payments, theft-proof and nontaxable.
Hugging is an underutilized resource with magical powers. When we open our hearts and arms, we encourage others to do the same.
Think of the people in your life. Are there any words you'd like to say? Are there any hugs you want to share? Are you waiting and hoping someone else will ask first? Please don't wait! Initiate!"

 

This is a beautiful thing i read a moment ago. Actually i was in a very very sulky mood, which mean i can just punch anybody who irritate me rite now, But.. when i read this wonderful text, all my anger just vanished. Hmmm... now looking for people to hug me.Hee hee hee:)

There are many people in my life, who i would like to sincerely give them a hug..

• my beloved parent ( i used to hug them always but it is always not enough)
• my siblings ( my little brother Vinod,especially, just hate me for hugging him a lot, he get annoyed when i run to offer him hug)
• my friends ( a long list of people, hmm....Ming, TaT, Sham, Nalina, Letchu, and many more)
• my relatives ( uncle, aunty, cousins... they really show love towards me, especially Nathan mama who always treat me as his elder daughter, Raja uncle for his unconditional love...)
• my Supervisor ( Wait till i graduate, on my convo maybe...i owe him A LOT)
• cann't think of anyone now.. so may be will updated it later..

Meeting FRiend...

Recently, i mean 2 days ago, one of my buddy invite me to follow her go for Mid Valley. The reason is simple, she wants to meet her friend who is my ex class mate. Got the picture...clear.

I never met this particular girl since i was 17..( it was 8 years back). First i hesitate.... but then.... i think i got no choice to avoid the meeting. I'm just worried tht the girl may have forgotten. Besided tht, i think i was a bit inferior complex... my friend is doctor in Australia, pretty, smart and so High Class....

We met at Ground floor, Centre Court, Mid Valley. The first expression was, " Oh My God! She didn't change at all". She is so lovely. She introduced her boyfriend, Kelvin. I was so happy to meet them. Although my friend is frm oversea and has a title Doctor infront of her name, she is still so polite, humble and simple.

She gave me a warm hug which really takes away my shyness or inferior ...so called watever.  It touches my heart, when she just hold and grab my hands and walk around. Never thought she will do tht to me even after 8 years. Really had a good time. Thanks for my buddy to bring along me for the reunion.

Chilled at Sg. Chiling:D

Kampung Adidas save our life:)

This is at the Dam. So beautiful scenery.

Arghh......me !! trying to pose.

Relaxing....

Me with Santhia. She looks a bit like Aiswarya Rai in the movie Ravanan.

This is the bridge where we have to walk before the jungle trekking.

We had to cross 5 rivers and walk for 1 hour in the jungle before we reached the waterfall.

Nature...

Here's the waterfall...

worth of 1 hour jungle trekking before reached here..

I don't know what is the name of this plant but i feel it look like snail..

"NO VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND CHILDREN...PLS"!!

She was a daughter, then sister, then a girl, then as a lady, later a wife followed by mother. She undergoes so much of transformation. Women in your life are SPECIAL. Women are like rose, if u treat them and handle them with care, it will be fine, but once u harsh with it, it will hurt u.

Although majority of women around us have move forward into the era of socialization, but still there are many women crying out there for help. Women still lost their rights to speak out. It is sad but this is the truth. Women nowadays are said to be growing fast than men ( the number of girls in university are enough to prove this statement) but this happen only in some countries or only among educated family. There are many women in 3rd world countries are still being abused and tortured by their own family. So many girls and children are being sexually abused. Women become victim of trafficking.

I watch this clips. I felt really touched to watch it. I realized that there are many good heart person to give hope for women.  "One such person is Sunitha Krishnan an inspirational lady who has put forth an example of exemplary human courage by turning tragedy into activism, by turning anger into a revolutionary force, by turning suffering to compassion. Sunitha was raped by 8 men when she was just 15 years old. Her fight and victimization didn't stop thee it was the social stigma that haunted her and transformed the girl into an iron lady she is today"( quoted by Parv Kaushik in Sunitha Krishnan: A Source Of Inspiration).

"Dear men , please care about the your women. Treat them well. Protect them.Women are human being too. They have feelings. Please respect them."

“As you put into practice the qualities of patience, punctuality, sincerity, and solicitude, you will have a better opinion of the world around you”...

“As you put into practice the qualities of patience, punctuality, sincerity, and solicitude, you will have a better opinion of the world around you”;Grenville Kleiser ( American author 1868-1953). 

Punctuality.......

Yesterday had a meeting with my Prof. It supposed to be at sharp 2.00pm. But as usual, u know student.... we just start to move in at 2.03pm. So the meeting starts at 2.20pm. He highlighted the issue about being puntual. Felt the sharp poking in my ears. Argghhh..... but what he says..is TRUE. I agree to it and know about it, but the question here is " Are we practicing it?"

Me, especially are poor in punctuality. Most of the time, people have to wait for me. Ashamed yet it is the truth. Punctual is not only an habit but it is a lifestyle. Do you know why i consider myself for not being punctual? Continue reading...

"I will put my alarm at 6.30 am but only wakes up at 8.00am. Then i will plan for things but somehow it will be 10-20 mins delay. Even for lunch, i will ask my friends to wait for 5 min to complete my task, but it will take more than tht. I will say i will reach my destination in 2 min time on the phone and i will somehow take 20 min to reach there...( i felt bad writing this but it happen in my life... i don't want to cheat in my blog...i admit my mistake and I will try to improve..it is life anyway)". I don't know how to estimate time actually. I tend to neglect about the delays and problem tht might occur. For example, let say i wants to reach KL, i will estimate 20 minutes from my place. I neglect the issue of being stuck in jam or rainy days. So i supposed to say 40mins instead of saying 20min. 

I think i should practice being more PUNCTUAL... come lets change our old habits...Starts with Alarm clock first.... set at 6.30 am means..wake up at 6.30 am....hee.hee.heee:)

 

Gossips....shhh!!!!!!!

Gossip.. I'm sick of it!!! Recently, i encountered so many unwanted experiences because of this. This person gossip about this particular person, and tht person gossip about  this person....goshh!!! And basically i'm literally involve in it. I think this the problem tht arise when too many girls in working environment ( sorry girls...but this is the truth).  News among girls spread so fast. And it actually affect the whole working environment usually. Sometimes the gossips is not true but yet people would be talking about it.

How to avoid gossip? Easy. Just follow this....

1. When u see more than 2 girl talking in a small group especially like whispering type.......PLS AVOID THE GROUP. MOVE UR BUTT TO OTHER PLACE!!!! ( if possible, don't even look at them)
2. If people ask anything about other people business..... just shook ur head left and right.
3. List down your true "SAFE" friend. A friend tht u can open up and share ur problems and dissatisfaction. ONLY share things with this SAFE friend. 
4. Don't talk about others when the person not around.
5. When people talk about others story... just interrupt and say " Hmmm...i don't know laa...none of  our business also..." make sure u smile widely after this statement if not next gossip will be about u.! 
6. This one is important ones; When people tell u stories just listen..... don't act smart by going and telling the people involved to conform the truth of the story.

Festive of Light:)

Deepavali is just around the corner. To be specific left only 3 days. My shopping still haven't settle yet. So, decided to go for shopping at KL. Since KL hv Deepavali Bazaar, so i and friend decided to go there for shopping. Basically, we were 2 indian girls and 3 Chinese girls. Driving there is much easier compared to find a parking lot. After going through all the hassle, we parked the car at the road side ( Thanks for Mr. Police for not giving us summon).

Once we reached there, the festive mood just bloom like that. So many people on the street. A lot of stall were set along the road. Policemen on duty were controlling the crowd..... The loud latest Tamil song, Enthiran was played again and again. The environment was soo busy, colourful and of course HAPPENING...

We were hungry so we randomly went to a restaurant. While we were busy eating, a lady with 2 kids walk towards us. She ask for money. I looked at her... she was about 35 years and her children was about 2 and  years old. I just donate some money to her without thinking much. She just smile to me... and wish me " Happy Deepavalli". She say tht her children was pity for not being able to celebrate Deepavalli. I kept quiet and continue with my dinner. I felt touch with her words. We sometimes tend to spend a lot for just 1 day celebration without realizing that there are still people around us who didn't have a chance to taste good food. I wish i can spread the divine love to everyone. Wish i can light the smile on everyone's face on this festival of light.

After tht, we quickly rush to all the shops. We hunt for beautiful punjabi suits. We shop and shop and shop. It was about 11.20pm. Then i realised...OUCH!!!! I and my indian friend didn't buy anything, my beloved Chinese friends are the one really excited and busy trying outfit. They bought about 4 suits. I felt tired already. Do u think we stop there? Nop!!! We go for a break. Hot tea really helps to retrieve my energy. Hee..hee.heee. ( although the tea is so light...but yet i finished it up). Then we continue the mission again.

When we go back, it was almost midnight...shhhhh. So late but there are still a lot of people shopping. I think it was first time shopping with friend until so late ( sorry amma!!).

Although tiring but yet happy and satisfied. I felt satisfied when i spend my time to choose the best outfit for my friends. I just love when i give my love to people around me. Giving is more valuable than receiving. I didn't manage to buy anything for myself but still i feel happy. 

Spreading Love on this festival season,

Love always,

Revathee

Uncle..oh...uncle:D

In this blog, i just want to share my experience i had today.... so if u are an old man....pls DON'T get offended. It is just my bad time to meet this funny creature. When we mention the word "UNCLE", what comes into our mind???? An old man who aged around 40+++. I hate when old man try to act cute in front of girls... I just feel like punching their face.
I'm staying in an apartment where we have security guards. Two weeks ago, i noticed that there was an Indian uncle who seems to be very helpful towards me and my friend. He always help us to get a parking lot and even let us to park in the visitors parking ( actually visitors parking are not for the resident, u got to leave ur license and IC there). At first, i didn't feel anything weird. But later, i started to notice him frequently. He make himself visible...by waving his hands when we past the guard house. Raising hand or shook our head while passing by guard house or security booth is a normal culture practice in Malaysia... but this is more than that. Imagine a person....quickly run outside the guard house just to see ur car and showing his entire teeth to u!!! This happen every time i pass by the guard house, in the morning and evening. My smart friend, Ong Hui Ming, always warn me about this Uncle. But i always don't take it serious, i thought she was just kidding with me. "I think he is looking at you...since u are chinese girl so he is concern about you" this is my answer to her every time she raise this issue.
But today's incident proven me wrong...Gosh!!! We parked our car in the parking lot as usual, suddenly from now where, this uncle walk towards our car. He starts his conversation with a bright smile. I try my best to cut the conversation short but it failed. He keep talking about my car..saying tht my car number plate is very lucky number. I just nod and try to walk away.... then suddenly he ask where i will be during Deepavalli. Oh my God!! " Klang" i answered him briefly... i try to walk faster to leave the place. " oh, i'm frm Klang too" he reply. Inside my heart, i'm already yelling...Who cares, UNCLE!! .. but i just dare not to say it out loud. I try my best not to react to his conversation. Suddenly, he reminds he tht his birthday is on 28 Oct... My friend, turn and look at me. I just smile and try my best to escape from that old man. I explain to my friend since she do not understand Tamil, she laughs.
I hope tht i will never see him on his birthday. I just wants to avoid him. I'm not sure whether i'm thinking too much or the uncle is a very friendly person indeed. Whatever the case, Uncle...u are an UNCLE!!! Please just treat me like a daughter nothing more... So irritating when old people try to disturb girls. Feeling so uncomfortable.......

Navarathiri....

Navarathiri just over. Yesterday was the 'Vijaya Dashami'. This pooja will be celebrated for 9 days and the 10th day will the "Vijaya Dashami".

I love everything about " Navarathiri"....... The celebration itself is so happening....temples will be decorated with neon bulbs, a lot of people in the temple, young cute girls wearing "pavada dress" and running around the temple, loud devotional songs playing in the temple, the colourful rangoli kolam in front of temples, beautiful decorated 'gollu' and of course the night food( prasadam ).

( Rangoli kolam)

( "Gollu")

The most intresting part of these pooja is the" Saraswathy Pooja". It is so cute to see the school children carry their text book to temple and arrange them neatly in of the Goddess Statue. They will close their eyes tight and make their long wish. Every year, the issue tht arises here is about the LOST BOOK... children sometimes forget to take back their books or accidentally brings back someone else book. Pity on the Gurukal and temple committee member's, they hv to keep remind the children about the books.

On the 10th day, it is believe tht the God had destroy the evil power (Mahisasuravarthan). The point to learn here is tht celebration is not just to enjoy. We should know how to implement tht in our life too. Navarathri celebration's motive is to cleanse our self from negative thoughts, action and intention. Hmmm.... i hope tht the negative values in me will be also destroyed. I hope to start a brand new life with positive attitude...no more lazziness...no more anger...
Navarathiri pooja is very close to my heart. I miss those days..where; i and my sister really look forward for Navarathri. We used to sing Classical song in the temple during Navarathri. I think we would be actively going for practice 1 month before the occasion. And both of us would be fighting to get new " pavada dress". It was so special kind of feeling when u wear your new 'pavada dress", siting right infront of God statue, and sing varanam. People patiently sit and listen to your song. A good experience for both of us.

Life:D

Have u ever seen night going?
The midnight and its song?

The sunrise and its beauty?

We are behaving almost like blind people..

In such a beautiful world, we are living in a small pond of our own misery,

Otherwise there is so much of joy all around us,

You just have to be aware of it and to be come a participant not a spectator.

Participate in the night leaving,

Participate in evening coming,

Participate in the stars,

Participate in the clouds,

Make participation in your lifestyle and whole
existence,

Enjoy every moment.... of life,
Beauty are around us only,
It is our mistake to be ignorant,
Count the blessings, and show your gratitude to GOD,
Learn, re-learn and unlearn again.
Life is beautiful.....:D

After Holidayss......

Oshh...... it already 1 week after my holiday from Penang. So much of things still in pending list. My little note book of THINGS TO BE DONE, showing me a long list.... i started my old habit ready...so shamed of myself. Cannot....... be like this.

Wake up...wake up...wake up.... no more holiday mood!!!!!..

Reva,

Stick to your positive attitude, don't procrastinate to do your work.. You have a long way to go to achieve our dreams. Don't let go your determination to achieve your dreams. Hurry up... pull up your socks!! Be little more discipline and do your duty. You are just like driving a car in a highway at the speed of 60 km/hr...... nop, you better change the gear and start to drive at 140km/hr..... if not you will be reaching your dream late...

So...the conclusion, work hard and smart.... time and tide waits for no one. It is been a blessing to get a chance to pursuit studies in this beatiful place... hope i will make full use of it.. Chia yok...Reva:)

Ipoh......

September..... i'm too busy at the moment. I am having a packed schedulle for this month. I joined so many classes..., i visited so many places..... and i meet so many new people....... isn't tht fun? I'm learning new stuff thts it. Learning not only by books...but through daily experiences.
Almost every weekend i'm occupied.

Place: Ipoh.

Although my grandma's house is in Ipoh, Perak, i hav never visited places there. We just travel from Klang to Ipoh, visit my grandma, took lunch or dinner there.. then comes back to Klang. I been trained to this since i'm small. Donno anything about Ipoh!! The only things i knew was my granny's house, Buntong market and the food called" Chee Chong Funn"(it is a kuey teow with chili sauce on it).But this month, i had a chance to explore Ipoh a little more. Thanks to my friend Puva to invite us for her engagement in Ipoh. My lovely friends ( Tat and Hui Ming) and i, planned to take this oppurtunity to travel around Ipoh. Had a great time there...

(** this is where u hv to make a wish and throw coins, i think it is to get true love...)
( this photo is taken in Sampathong, Perak... not sure the full spelling of it...he..he..hee)

( Sampathong is a famous Chinese temple in Ipoh... so basically i just follow and learn how Meng pray and follow it..... so if any mistake in prayers, sorry ye!!)

(This was taken in Gunung Lang, Ipoh.... It is a recretional park. I pretend to show a normal face but i think i was a bit scared during the boat ride......thank god for not seing crocodile in the lake)...

(This place is named Gunung Lang.... after the name of a chinese princess... We can see her in the rock here. It looks like a women with long hair... scary rite? This was told to us by the tour guide here..a friendly Indian uncle.)
( the soul reason for these photo was Ong Hui Ming..... She is a very talented and a creative person too. She hepls me to take this Emo photo...Thanks, Ming:)( this photo was taken in The Engagement Ceremony, at Chettiar Temple, Ipoh. The engagement ceremony was so blissful. Full of love and smile everywhere. I felt so happy for my friend Puva...Wishing her a happy married life with her loved one.)
I wish i can go for another trip again...but of course not so soon... Really enjoy my day with a lot of laughter and fun. We too so much of photos... nearly more than three hundreds in just 1 day. ....

Spirituality...

Basically, this month, i learned a lot about spiritualism. I attended few courses to develop my inner self. I think i learn something new. The most intersting one was " THE ART OF LIVING". It was a 3 days course. It was founded in 1981 by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, The Art of Living is a not-for-profit, educational, and humanitarian NGO engaged in stress-management and service initiatives. The organization operates globally in 151 countries. The organization's activities are guided by Sri Sri’s philosophy of peace: “Unless we have a stress-free mind and a violence-free society, we cannot achieve world peace.” To help individuals get rid of stress and experience inner peace, The Art of Living offers stress-elimination programs which include breathing techniques, meditation and yoga. These programs have helped millions around the world to overcome stress, depression, and violent tendencies. The Art of Living has spread peace across communities through diverse humanitarian projects, including conflict resolution, disaster relief, sustainable rural development, empowerment of women, prisoner rehabilitation, education for all, and environmental sustainability.
Sudarshan Kriya breathing technique taught by them is very useful for me. I realised how important is our breath. It help me to remain calm and active. Actually body gets tired due to lack of oxygen supply to brain...now i can relate what i learn in my biology class during my Form 5. Continuos practice of this yoga, can cure sinus. I hope after this i can stop sneezing in the morning.
Hmmmm...... learning is always fun, but i hope tht i can put or implement them on my daily life. Nothing will happen if we didn't apply what we learn in our life. Everything need practice and discipline. Go..go...go...Revathee!!!

Malaysia Day...:)

16th September 1963, is a special day for all Malaysian. It is when Malaysia was formed. The Merdeka anniversary on August 31 to mark the nation’s Independence in 1957 is however not very meaningful to the people of Sabah and Sarawak. This is because it was September 16,1963 that Malaysia was formed with the union of Sabah and Sarawak with Malaya to establish a new federation ( this is what my History teacher thought me).Now it become more meaningful to us, coz it was a PUBLIC HOLIDAY!

Yes, this is typical Malaysian mentality. Most of us concern and celebrate for the holidays not for the reason. We are very happy not for the Malaysia's Day but for the holiday. This is the truth..... I am sure, still many out there enjoy their public holidays without even knowing why it was given. We just love public holidays. If it falls on Monday or Friday, then it is called perfect...

I hope people don't deny this truth.... Ok, tell me what u will do first when u got a new calendar for new year? First, u will check for your birthday...then ur beloved birthdays, then...check for Big celebration date...then of course for sure u will check for any other public days for tht year.... hmmmm... love holidayss..( Holidays are Jolly dayss...):)

Honestly i too love holidays. All of us have the right to enjoy our holidays. But at the same time, i just hope tht we understand the real purpose for the public holiday given. Malaysia's Day should be celebrated, at least by singing National Anthem or even by waving National's Flag. Then all of us can go on with our plans. By this, at least the Public Holiday given make worth!!!

"HAPPY MALAYSIA DAY!!! Love u, Malaysia:)"

LOVE AND LAW OF ATTRACTION:)

Recently, i love to read.... Every morning before i could start my work in lab, i just try to enjoy a cup of coffee while reading. I enjoyed the moment. I totally agree to my Prof, " U all ah.. should read more!!"this is exactly his favorite quote. Basically, i am reading about anything which i can learned about. Few days ago, i come across an article, i enjoy reading it. So i decided to share it with everyone here. The article is about LOVE AND LAW OF ATTRACTION.

According to the article, Only a loving person — one who is already loving — can find the right partner. It means; if you are unhappy you will find somebody who is unhappy. Unhappy people are attracted towards unhappy people. And it is good, it is natural. It is good that the unhappy people are not attracted towards happy people; otherwise they would destroy their happiness. It is perfectly okay.

Only happy people are attracted towards happy people. The same attracts the same. Intelligent people are attracted towards intelligent people; stupid people are attracted towards stupid people. You meet people of the same plane. So the first thing to remember is: a relationship is bound to be bitter if it has grown out of unhappiness. First be happy, be joyful, be celebrating, and then you will find some other soul celebrating and there will be a meeting of two dancing souls and a great dance will arise out of it.

Don’t ask for a relationship out of loneliness, no. Then you are moving in a wrong direction. Then the other will be used as a means and the other will use you as a means. And nobody wants to be used as a means! Every single individual is an end unto himself. It is immoral to use anybody as a means. If you can be happy when you are alone, you have learned the secret of being happy. Now you can be happy together. If you are happy, then you have something to share, to give. And when you give you get; it is not the other way. Then a need arises to love somebody.

Ordinarily the need is to be loved by somebody. It is a wrong need. It is a childish need; you are not mature. It is a child’s attitude. A mature person is one who comes to know the other need: that now I have to love somebody. The need to be loved is childish, immature. The need to love is mature. And when you are ready to love somebody, a beautiful relationship will arise; otherwise not.
“Is it possible for two people in a relationship to be bad for each other?” Yes, that’s what is happening all over the world. To be good is very difficult. You are not good even to yourself. How can you be good to somebody else?

You don’t even love yourself! How can you love somebody else? Love yourself, be good to yourself. The first and foremost thing is to be loving towards yourself. Don’t be hard; be soft. Care about yourself. Learn how to forgive yourself — again and again and again — seven times, seventy-seven times, seven hundred seventy-seven times. Learn how to forgive yourself. Don’t be hard; don’t be antagonistic towards yourself. Then you will flower. In that flowering you will attract some other flower. It is natural. Stones attract stones; flowers attract flowers. Then there is a relationship which has grace, which has beauty, which has a benediction in it. If you can find such a relationship, your relationship will grow into prayer;your love will become an ecstasy and through love you will know what the divine is.

(source:OSHO – Ecstasy: The Forgotten Language)