LOVE GIVES ME HOPE......

Yesterday, a friend of mine called me. After a casual conversation, i notice tht she sounds very happy and excited. From her voice, i can notice tht she is so hyper and energetic. I asked her, what happen? What is she so excited about?

She told me tht she received a call from someone special. Then she continues again..... She received this call after 12 years. She is been looking for this guy to ask for sorry since she was 13. When she is 13, the guy proposed to her and she rejected him. But the worst part is, she just run away for her high school to avoid this guy. That's sound ridiculous....and my friend felt so bad after tht incident. Since then, she always been searching him to convey her sorry.

It seems tht my friend used to receive sms frm this particular number often. When she call no one will picks up the call for this number.  All of sudden, the guy called her yesterday and introduce himself. The guy had been looking for her since she left the school. Actually, he wants to say sorry for what had happen....... The guy told her tht he is been stalking her for past 12 years. He used to wait outside of her school to see her, he even had seen her recently in a wedding dinner, he also seen her in temples...so many times. But he was afraid to approach her.

My friend became speechless hearing to him. She felt so happy and special. It is like both of them were in a same place but didn't able to talk or see. If the guy had approach her the first time he met her, probably she doesn't need to waste her time of years to keep search for him...

Hmmm....happy for my friend!!!

HUGs...XOXO:D

"Hugging Is.......

Hugging is healthy. It helps the immune system, cures depression, reduces stress and induces sleep. It's invigorating, rejuvenating and has no unpleasant side effects. Hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug.
Hugging is all natural. It is organic, naturally sweet, no artificial ingredients, nonpolluting, environmentally friendly and 100 percent wholesome.
Hugging is the ideal gift. Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its awn wrapping and, of course, fully returnable.
Hugging is practically perfect. No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof, nonfattening, no monthly payments, theft-proof and nontaxable.
Hugging is an underutilized resource with magical powers. When we open our hearts and arms, we encourage others to do the same.
Think of the people in your life. Are there any words you'd like to say? Are there any hugs you want to share? Are you waiting and hoping someone else will ask first? Please don't wait! Initiate!"

 

This is a beautiful thing i read a moment ago. Actually i was in a very very sulky mood, which mean i can just punch anybody who irritate me rite now, But.. when i read this wonderful text, all my anger just vanished. Hmmm... now looking for people to hug me.Hee hee hee:)

There are many people in my life, who i would like to sincerely give them a hug..

• my beloved parent ( i used to hug them always but it is always not enough)
• my siblings ( my little brother Vinod,especially, just hate me for hugging him a lot, he get annoyed when i run to offer him hug)
• my friends ( a long list of people, hmm....Ming, TaT, Sham, Nalina, Letchu, and many more)
• my relatives ( uncle, aunty, cousins... they really show love towards me, especially Nathan mama who always treat me as his elder daughter, Raja uncle for his unconditional love...)
• my Supervisor ( Wait till i graduate, on my convo maybe...i owe him A LOT)
• cann't think of anyone now.. so may be will updated it later..

Meeting FRiend...

Recently, i mean 2 days ago, one of my buddy invite me to follow her go for Mid Valley. The reason is simple, she wants to meet her friend who is my ex class mate. Got the picture...clear.

I never met this particular girl since i was 17..( it was 8 years back). First i hesitate.... but then.... i think i got no choice to avoid the meeting. I'm just worried tht the girl may have forgotten. Besided tht, i think i was a bit inferior complex... my friend is doctor in Australia, pretty, smart and so High Class....

We met at Ground floor, Centre Court, Mid Valley. The first expression was, " Oh My God! She didn't change at all". She is so lovely. She introduced her boyfriend, Kelvin. I was so happy to meet them. Although my friend is frm oversea and has a title Doctor infront of her name, she is still so polite, humble and simple.

She gave me a warm hug which really takes away my shyness or inferior ...so called watever.  It touches my heart, when she just hold and grab my hands and walk around. Never thought she will do tht to me even after 8 years. Really had a good time. Thanks for my buddy to bring along me for the reunion.

Chilled at Sg. Chiling:D

Kampung Adidas save our life:)

This is at the Dam. So beautiful scenery.

Arghh......me !! trying to pose.

Relaxing....

Me with Santhia. She looks a bit like Aiswarya Rai in the movie Ravanan.

This is the bridge where we have to walk before the jungle trekking.

We had to cross 5 rivers and walk for 1 hour in the jungle before we reached the waterfall.

Nature...

Here's the waterfall...

worth of 1 hour jungle trekking before reached here..

I don't know what is the name of this plant but i feel it look like snail..

"NO VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND CHILDREN...PLS"!!

She was a daughter, then sister, then a girl, then as a lady, later a wife followed by mother. She undergoes so much of transformation. Women in your life are SPECIAL. Women are like rose, if u treat them and handle them with care, it will be fine, but once u harsh with it, it will hurt u.

Although majority of women around us have move forward into the era of socialization, but still there are many women crying out there for help. Women still lost their rights to speak out. It is sad but this is the truth. Women nowadays are said to be growing fast than men ( the number of girls in university are enough to prove this statement) but this happen only in some countries or only among educated family. There are many women in 3rd world countries are still being abused and tortured by their own family. So many girls and children are being sexually abused. Women become victim of trafficking.

I watch this clips. I felt really touched to watch it. I realized that there are many good heart person to give hope for women.  "One such person is Sunitha Krishnan an inspirational lady who has put forth an example of exemplary human courage by turning tragedy into activism, by turning anger into a revolutionary force, by turning suffering to compassion. Sunitha was raped by 8 men when she was just 15 years old. Her fight and victimization didn't stop thee it was the social stigma that haunted her and transformed the girl into an iron lady she is today"( quoted by Parv Kaushik in Sunitha Krishnan: A Source Of Inspiration).

"Dear men , please care about the your women. Treat them well. Protect them.Women are human being too. They have feelings. Please respect them."

“As you put into practice the qualities of patience, punctuality, sincerity, and solicitude, you will have a better opinion of the world around you”...

“As you put into practice the qualities of patience, punctuality, sincerity, and solicitude, you will have a better opinion of the world around you”;Grenville Kleiser ( American author 1868-1953). 

Punctuality.......

Yesterday had a meeting with my Prof. It supposed to be at sharp 2.00pm. But as usual, u know student.... we just start to move in at 2.03pm. So the meeting starts at 2.20pm. He highlighted the issue about being puntual. Felt the sharp poking in my ears. Argghhh..... but what he says..is TRUE. I agree to it and know about it, but the question here is " Are we practicing it?"

Me, especially are poor in punctuality. Most of the time, people have to wait for me. Ashamed yet it is the truth. Punctual is not only an habit but it is a lifestyle. Do you know why i consider myself for not being punctual? Continue reading...

"I will put my alarm at 6.30 am but only wakes up at 8.00am. Then i will plan for things but somehow it will be 10-20 mins delay. Even for lunch, i will ask my friends to wait for 5 min to complete my task, but it will take more than tht. I will say i will reach my destination in 2 min time on the phone and i will somehow take 20 min to reach there...( i felt bad writing this but it happen in my life... i don't want to cheat in my blog...i admit my mistake and I will try to improve..it is life anyway)". I don't know how to estimate time actually. I tend to neglect about the delays and problem tht might occur. For example, let say i wants to reach KL, i will estimate 20 minutes from my place. I neglect the issue of being stuck in jam or rainy days. So i supposed to say 40mins instead of saying 20min. 

I think i should practice being more PUNCTUAL... come lets change our old habits...Starts with Alarm clock first.... set at 6.30 am means..wake up at 6.30 am....hee.hee.heee:)

 

Gossips....shhh!!!!!!!

Gossip.. I'm sick of it!!! Recently, i encountered so many unwanted experiences because of this. This person gossip about this particular person, and tht person gossip about  this person....goshh!!! And basically i'm literally involve in it. I think this the problem tht arise when too many girls in working environment ( sorry girls...but this is the truth).  News among girls spread so fast. And it actually affect the whole working environment usually. Sometimes the gossips is not true but yet people would be talking about it.

How to avoid gossip? Easy. Just follow this....

1. When u see more than 2 girl talking in a small group especially like whispering type.......PLS AVOID THE GROUP. MOVE UR BUTT TO OTHER PLACE!!!! ( if possible, don't even look at them)
2. If people ask anything about other people business..... just shook ur head left and right.
3. List down your true "SAFE" friend. A friend tht u can open up and share ur problems and dissatisfaction. ONLY share things with this SAFE friend. 
4. Don't talk about others when the person not around.
5. When people talk about others story... just interrupt and say " Hmmm...i don't know laa...none of  our business also..." make sure u smile widely after this statement if not next gossip will be about u.! 
6. This one is important ones; When people tell u stories just listen..... don't act smart by going and telling the people involved to conform the truth of the story.

Festive of Light:)

Deepavali is just around the corner. To be specific left only 3 days. My shopping still haven't settle yet. So, decided to go for shopping at KL. Since KL hv Deepavali Bazaar, so i and friend decided to go there for shopping. Basically, we were 2 indian girls and 3 Chinese girls. Driving there is much easier compared to find a parking lot. After going through all the hassle, we parked the car at the road side ( Thanks for Mr. Police for not giving us summon).

Once we reached there, the festive mood just bloom like that. So many people on the street. A lot of stall were set along the road. Policemen on duty were controlling the crowd..... The loud latest Tamil song, Enthiran was played again and again. The environment was soo busy, colourful and of course HAPPENING...

We were hungry so we randomly went to a restaurant. While we were busy eating, a lady with 2 kids walk towards us. She ask for money. I looked at her... she was about 35 years and her children was about 2 and  years old. I just donate some money to her without thinking much. She just smile to me... and wish me " Happy Deepavalli". She say tht her children was pity for not being able to celebrate Deepavalli. I kept quiet and continue with my dinner. I felt touch with her words. We sometimes tend to spend a lot for just 1 day celebration without realizing that there are still people around us who didn't have a chance to taste good food. I wish i can spread the divine love to everyone. Wish i can light the smile on everyone's face on this festival of light.

After tht, we quickly rush to all the shops. We hunt for beautiful punjabi suits. We shop and shop and shop. It was about 11.20pm. Then i realised...OUCH!!!! I and my indian friend didn't buy anything, my beloved Chinese friends are the one really excited and busy trying outfit. They bought about 4 suits. I felt tired already. Do u think we stop there? Nop!!! We go for a break. Hot tea really helps to retrieve my energy. Hee..hee.heee. ( although the tea is so light...but yet i finished it up). Then we continue the mission again.

When we go back, it was almost midnight...shhhhh. So late but there are still a lot of people shopping. I think it was first time shopping with friend until so late ( sorry amma!!).

Although tiring but yet happy and satisfied. I felt satisfied when i spend my time to choose the best outfit for my friends. I just love when i give my love to people around me. Giving is more valuable than receiving. I didn't manage to buy anything for myself but still i feel happy. 

Spreading Love on this festival season,

Love always,

Revathee